In A Perfect World. . .Free the Leash Kids!

In a perfect world; children would not be kept on leashes.  Let me explain.  In one of my American Lit II classes, my students managed to steer the class discussion onto a bunny trail about how their parents had used a "leash" to keep up with them when they were out in public as we were discussing the character of Randolph in Henry James; Daisy Miller.  I will hasten to add that none of them appeared traumatized by this; they actually found it amusing.  This brings me to my point; parents do need to keep up with their children in public.  Unfortunately, too many parents are distracted by some type of media, or they're just completely self-absorbed.  How often have you been to a restuarant and seen children running around the table as their parents are absorbed in conversation or with a cell phone.  The same is true in department stores; how often do you see children running through the aisles or playing in clothes racks as their parents shop?  Parenting is difficult and it requires extreme diligence.  It takes time to teach children to sit at the table instead of allowing them to run around.  While I understand this may not be an easy task, perhaps the adults at the table could engage the children in conversation (I understand this might detract from gossip, but so be it).  In this way, children could not only learn table manners but also learn the art of conversation.  But again, this might take away from "adult" conversations.  Unfortunately, in today's society, we've become very hedonistic and believe that the only thing of importance is what makes us happy and comfortable.  Too many parents have been led to believe that "No" is word their children should never hear.  Consequently, children grow up with the idea that they should get everything they want when they want it.  Ok, enough of my tirade. Parents need to put aside distractions when they're out with their children.  Take the leash off the toddlers and hold their hand; develop those all-important bonds. The point is this, scripture tell us to "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it" (Proverbs--paraphrase).  As a grandparent, I understand how quickly children grow up.  Parents, take the time to love and discipline your children; they are a precious gift from God.  Blessings!